Rhonda came into my life at one of my turning points and played a large role in the person I became. To this day my women lovers must live up to Rhonda...and really none of them have. She was a woman of many talents. Her fine mind, her artistic side, her ability to see good in anyone, her love for a good baseball game, her love of nature, her sultry voice, all these and more made her important to me for Years after our "relationship" ended. I miss her phone calls at odd hours of the day or night. I miss her advice. I miss her mouth. She is multidimensional now and can visit ALL her friends anytime. WOW! What a great angel we all have. hmmmmmm...

Reflections of Self We Are All Mirrors for Each Other When we look at other people, we see many of their qualities in innumerable and seemingly random combinations. However, the qualities that we see in the people around us are directly related to the traits that exist in us. "Like attracts like" is one of the spiritual laws of the universe. We attract individuals into our lives that mirror who we are. Those you feel drawn to reflect your inner self back at you, and you act as a mirror for them. Simply put, when you look at others, you will likely see what exists in you. When you see beauty, divinity, sweetness, or light in the soul of another, you are seeing the goodness that resides in your soul. When you see traits in others that evoke feelings of anger, annoyance, or hatred, you may be seeing reflected back at you those parts of yourself that you have disowned or do not like. Because we are all mirrors for each other, looking at the people in your life can tell you a lot about yourself. Who you are can be laid bare to you through what you see in others. It is easy to see the traits you do not like in others. It is much more difficult to realize that you possess those same traits. Often, the habits, attitudes, and behaviors of others are closely linked to our unconscious and unresolved issues. When you come into contact with someone you admire, search your soul for similarly admirable traits. Likewise, when you meet someone exhibiting traits that you dislike, accept that you are looking at your reflection. Looking at yourself through your perception of others can be a humbling and eye-opening experience. You can also cultivate in you the traits and behaviors that you do like. Be loving and respectful to all people, and you will attract individuals that will love and respect you back. Nurture compassion and empathy and let the goodness you see in others be your mirror.

One thing you can say about Rhonda...once you met her it wasn't likely you would forget her. I remember her painting and creating pieces of art. She liked to keep things about her a bit of a mystery.Her mother, Lori was always a big part of her life, and I remember her kindness and love for her Granny outside of Knoxville, Tennessee. How she loved the land and the southern way of life. It was easier to see it through her eyes. Blessings on your current journey, Rhonda. Ginny